This issue of the FJMC Unraveller, a weekly commentary explaining the aspects of Jewish history, ideas and thought, is being sent to you by the Federation of Jewish Men's Clubs. We hope you enjoy it and find it intellectually challenging.
Dear FJMC leaders and supporters, Just as with the commentary I have offered each of the last two weeks in relaunching this column, I am presenting this week some reflections on experiences that I have shared with FJMC leaders since the massacre at Tree of Life Synagogue in Pittsburgh. That tragedy continues to shape the context of how I revisit earlier material that I published for the Jewish Theological Seminary, just as the aftermath of that act of domestic terrorism continues to influence the daily lives of so many of us.
One way that I sadly continue to find the past few weeks reverberating each Shabbat is during the Kabbalat
Shabbat service. After the congregation concludes singing the uplifting mystical poem Lekha Dodi, we pause to greet anyone in mourning who has waited to enter the sanctuary until that moment, as is our custom for those still observing Shiva, the first week after burial. While the families of those murdered in Pittsburgh had already moved from Shiva into the period of Sheloshim, the less-restrictive remainder of the first month after burial, the FJMC leaders gathered last weekend for our international Leadership Development Institute (LDI) included several members of our clubs in and near Thousand Oaks. Even though none of their families were directly affected, that senseless massacre reopened the psychological wounds that they and
so many others among us have experienced as a traumatic response to Pittsburgh. In pausing our LDI participants’ welcoming of Shabbat for this moment, I drew their attention to the phrase traditionally offered to mourners entering that prayer space, language that finds deep resonance with the beginning of this week’s Torah portion: HaMakom Yenachem Etchem B’tokh She’ar Avelei Tzion V’Yerushalayim. May the Everpresent One comfort you among the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem. While the origins and history of those words and this custom are worth exploring, their relevance here comes from the way that
our Ancient Sages turned a seemingly-innocuous term (HaMakom, or “the place”) into a powerful nickname for God that encompasses the full emotional and spiritual experience of the Divine. Indeed, the idea that God is transcendent and immanent, that God fills and surrounds us, comes not just from “peak experiences” of joy and ecstasy but during the depths of mourning and sadness. Whether we find God in the support of our family and community members, or perhaps in the catharsis of wailing and crying, our ancestors articulated great wisdom in locating God’s presence in every realm of human experience. This week’s Torah portion opens with the beginning of Jacob’s journey from the only home he had
ever known. He is both literally and figuratively unsettled when he has his nighttime vision of angels ascending and descending a ladder right next to him. We, too, might continue to feel unsettled by the tragic events of recent weeks. Let us open ourselves to the rawness of that reality and to the needs of those likely experiencing the same challenges. Perhaps we will find God’s presence within and around us in that process. I hope that my words below, written almost a decade ago, can be helpful as we attempt to walk this path together. Shabbat Shalom. Rabbi Andy Shugerman, Executive Director
This Unraveller was sent out on November 15th, at
approximately 11:00 PM (Eastern and prior to Shabbat). |