Mental Wellness and Coronavirus Parlor Meeting – Gary SmithFJMC/FJL, A MENTAL WELLNESS INITIATIVE - BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE – Gary Smith Today was a special day. At my synagogue, my rabbi, Rabbi Moshe Smolkin, Dr Hamilton Lempert and Dr Gary Smith unveiled and led the first Hearing People’s Voices discussion at Adath Israel synagogue in Cincinnati, Ohio on Mental Wellness. We decided to call an emergency “Hearing Peoples Voices” /
Parlor Discussion on “Anxiety and Depression associated with Coronavirus and other Infectious Disease”. It was well attended. We first gave some background on the initiative. Then Dr. Lempert an Emergency Room (ER) doctor in contact with the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) gave some information about the virus and its spread, as well as debunking some theories on the origination of the virus. Dr Gary Smith then discussed “anticipatory anxiety”. What triggers anxiety? We brought up in the discussion that the term “social distance” should really be “physical distance”! Each person had a different set of anxiety and depression experiences
related to the Coronavirus. Anticipatory anxiety was the most common. It is the nervousness we feel about what might happen. The dentist in the group was struggling with how to open his doors and serve his clients. After the discussion he came up with a plan. Gary discussed whether it was more important to isolate ourselves or to have some type of social interaction. The psychologist in the group suggested he has seen more people with anxiety and depression recently because of the lack of social interaction. We changed the term social distancing to physical distancing at the behest of our psychologist. We all thought that was a better term. We all sat about 4 feet apart in a large circle in a very
comfortable setting. We came up with 6 most important points for prevention: 1. Washing hands - for at least 20 seconds frequently 2. Rest - particularly if sleep is difficult 3. Meditation – it works amazingly for healing and relaxation and helping to eliminate anxiety 4. Hydration - maybe the most important 5. Exercise - very critical particularly if you can achieve
sweating 6. Diet - including herbs like turmeric and black pepper, ginger, garlic, tomatoes, blueberries, wild salmon, and olive oil. These all have anti-inflammatory properties. I also discussed what to do if you feel sick; that it might not be a good idea to rush to the ER but first to call your doctor and take a Tylenol for fever. We also discussed children. Interestingly babies do not get symptoms of the disease but can be carriers. So be aware of where they might have been. It was also suggested that it is ok to meet in small groups of 2 – 10; just be careful to keep your distance and use wipes or Purell. We discussed having
Shabbat service with 7 - 10 people in breakouts and no main service, or having Zoom minyans. If you are going to “socially isolate” yourself please find some hobbies, exercise for example by walking with someone outside while keeping your distance from each other and others. After analyzing this whole virus situation my personal viewpoint is somewhat different. I think God has put this virus in front of us to see how we are going to react and so we learn to be proactive. I believe that because of Global Warming and the challenges to the earth in supporting the number of people in the world that we are in for more major disease catastrophes. A sobering thought but something to think
about and to work on preparing-for so we do not get caught unprepared. Everyone was so excited about our talk. The conclusion was there is a new normal in families because mental illness is so prevalent. More than 75 % of families are dealing with some form of mental illness. It is our hope that we will continue to share information so we, the FJMC/FJL, can come up with plans to prevent Coronavirus, educate and build awareness for our precious families. Let me know if you have any questions. Also, if you are going to run a program like this make sure your rabbi is fully supportive and shows up for the first 5 mins of the
discussion. It makes what you are doing that much more credible. Also try to have a health professional as a facilitator and you as the moderator. Thank you and please contact Dr. Gary Smith with questions. gsmith@fjmc.org . |