Submission #28322 by Beth El Temple Men's Club - West Hartford (217)

Submission information
Submitted by DiamondMC
Wed, 2023-04-26 15:22
32.213.190.202
2023
I have read the 2023 Torch Awards Program Guidelines.
Club Name
Beth El Temple Men's Club - West Hartford (217)
Golf Lounge 18 Outing
Club Representative
Person completing form
Dr. Jeff Shore
David
Diamond
Club President at time of convention if known at this time
Arthur
Freedman
Club President Now
Arthur
Freedman
FJMC - other

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One of our board members suggested that we sponsor an outing at a recently opened Golf Lounge 18. We agreed right away that having an outing at a sports-themed bar with multiple TVs, food and drinks, as well multiple indoor golf bays, would be of interest and attract a variety of members of our synagogue.
Golf Lounge 18 (https://golflounge18.com/) is a venue with multiple locations in Connecticut as well as locations in the suburbs of Boston and New York City. They recently opened a venue in Canton, CT, a short drive from our synagogue. At a board meeting when we were discussing programming, one of the board members suggested we have an outing at this venue. We readily agreed, and decided to identify a Thursday evening that would work. We try to gear as many programs as possible for younger members and they've provided us feedback that an occasional night out later in the week is the best time for them to go out. Knowing that many of them enjoy golf, this would be the ideal outing.

This venue offers more than just golf - it's really a sports bar with many TVs, and of course having the usual food and drinks. Non-golfers who didn't want to play could still attend and have an enjoyable evening out.

The board member who suggested Golf Lounge 18 agreed to be the program chair and a small committee was formed to work with him in planning this outing. The date we suggested worked for the venue, and we ultimately made some key decisions about this program: It would be from 8-10pm, we'd have 3 golf bays to ourselves, and various appetizers would be included. There would be a cash bar. The cost would be $10pp for Men's Club members, $20pp for everyone else, and the Men's Club would subsidize the balance of the cost for the evening.

A diverse group of 14 people, ranging in age from early 40s through 70s, attended and had a great time. Everyone enjoyed the socializing and camaraderie. Most tried their luck playing golf, even some of the non-golfers. No one played particularly well, but we didn't care!
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Self Assessment
We all considered this program a success. Having a relatively small number of participants allows everyone to meet each other and not get "lost in the crowd." There was one couple who joined Beth El Temple just two months earlier and enjoyed meeting everyone. When they joined, the woman found out about the Men's Club walking group which meets twice per week, and she has become one of the regular walkers! Her husband (who is not Jewish) remarked how welcome he feels at our synagogue and any event he has attended.

Having this indoor golf outing is yet another example of the variety of programming the Men's Club offers to reach out to our diverse community.
This activity had Jewish men working together to provide an opportunity for a fun night out and to connect with others in the community.

Innovation: developing programming that better connects people of all ages to the Jewish community. This was a fun night connecting our synagogue members covering a wide range of ages. It provided an activity that helped connect a non-Jewish member who recently joined our synagogue (with his Jewish wife) with the Jewish community.

Community: forming meaningful long-lasting relationships based on camaraderie, common interests and core values. A night out at an indoor golf facility and sports bar helps in this regard.
Video of action shot from the outing:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5peobBYektw

While Golf Lounge 18 currently has venues in just three northeast states, there are similar venues opening up all over the country. This activity does not require much manpower or expenses, and is easy to replicate. Simply find a nearby venue, identify a date and time that works, and publicize.

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